Hello Cathy
Thanks for this, I have written down the Gary Smalley book and will try the library for it. I am interested in your view that people can change. It seems such a firm idea in our society that people cannot change. Did you always think that people could change or did you come to this opinion with experience?? My husband thinks that I have changed, but I was sick, and with treatment, have recovered. I wonder if this is the situation with your alcoholic husband, he was sick and is now recovered?? May I also ask you in what ways you had to change? And how did you arrive at that insight, because insight can be a difficult thing to have? Sorry to interupt the conversational thread.