Hello again Ladies-
I need some input. There has not been much interaction between us and our daughter since the last talk we had. In fact, we were at a family party and there were less than 5 words exchanged. Not that I didn't try.
But here is the issue I would like some thoughts on...she sent me an email asking for her birth certificate and telling me that she is going to be measured for her dress and some other things. This email sounded to me like she was talking to an acquaintance, not her mom. She asked me if I want to be there with her. I wrote an email back to her stating that yes I want to be there and in fact I would love to do more. I told her how much this is hurting and breaking my heart. And how this should be one of the happiest times of our lives and has turned into a mess. The question is this - I really don't know if I should send it. I am really trying not to react and allow the evil one in. So I really don't know what to do. Any thoughts?