I feel so awful to hear this. I agree with Chatty. I would have chewed him up and spit him out. That was extremely rude of him. He has no right to EXPECT anything from you or any members of your family invited to attend. Doesn't he understand what a "gift" is? He needs to learn some manners and be set straight. Doesn't matter how old he is. This guy is immature and selfish, like his mother. I wish you and your daughter luck.

Louis