Well now you know ladies what I have known and been upset about since meeting our beautiful Danita here in Vegas in June. She confided her problem to me and I was so sad for her and unable to come up with any real answers although we talked and talked. Some men are just plain nuts and this man has done unforgivable things to this wonderful kind and loving woman. I have been praying for her and hoping the new job will bring her joy and opportunity to put this sorrow behind her which won't be easy because it snuck up on her. Sometimes we suspect and other times we haven't a clue and thats the worst. I am saddened to know that unfortunately Danita is not alone and I am in contact with two other women having marital difficulties as well. I guess being single is the safest way to be these days...There are some good men out there so if you have one even though he may not be perfect, hang on to him and cherish him because the majority of them are as--oles!!