What is the proper way to acknowledge a wedding anniversary after losing a spouse? Tomorrow would have been my SIL 25th wedding anniversary - she lost her husband in October. My MIL suggested that we tak her out to dinner - I think that is totally inappropriate. I think it would be OK for MIL to ask if SIL would like to go for a quiet dinner (just the 2 of them) but not include the extended family.

Your advice will help a lot. I certainly want SIL to know that we are thinking of her - but don't want to do the wrong thing.