Deb, I'm sure someone will jump in who's been through this.

Last week, Jed Diamond did a teleseminar for the association, www.nabbw.com. He is our national expert on male menopuase. You should visit his site at www.menalive.com. He has a trememdous handle on what midlife men go through. He will be doing another teleseminar about your very topic before the end of this year. Hope this helps.