Well, at least now I know and there's no denying it. He has kicked in the bathroom door and thrown things at me and most recently threw my GD's baby carriage across the room.

I'll get used to being on my own. I'll probably be much happier. Thanks for the info. Isn't there something out there to describe the personality traits and what to look out for in abusive personalities? He IS also an alcoholic. He drinks between 12-16 beers a night and shots in between.

I haven't eaten anything all day. I need to listen to reason and not my heart. If it weren't for my daughter and GD being here, I would run like the wind and never look back.