I appreciate all your good wishes ladies. It feels like this all happened in another lifetime. I tried to heal for years and was going along just fine, I mean it wasn't a burden on my mind or anything, but one day I got to thinking about it a little too hard (it was eleven years later) so I picked up the phone and called my X husband. I told him I wanted to have a good talk with him to help me understand WHY? Oddly enough, he obliged and when I hung up, I was completely satisfied and yes healed. I never looked back...

chick