Jeanne,
Excellent input and yes, you did answer my questions. You are always so clear with your responses and make it easy for people like me to understand better. I know one thing, since people like YOU have given so freely of their time and knowlege, I have become so much more tolerant of people with anxieties different from my own, OR people who just seem different, for that matter. Things I didn't understand, (or take the time to?) have a name now, and explanations and you just wouldn't believe how this has helped! I have friends who I think may fall into one or more of these categories and now at least I can listen to them and understand a little better, be more compassionate. You've helped so much!

JJ