That goes to show how the eyes are indeed the windows of the soul. Sugar, I don't know if your question was rhetorical, but when I read your post, my initial reaction was that you were NOT over-reacting or biased by experience. I'm sorry to hear about the experiences with Mayor. No matter what, you were a child, and he was a ...pervert. He should never, ever have done that to you. She sounds like an accomplice. Love and Light, Lynn