The things we do to ourselves sometimes by not holding on. I left my 2nd husband and the beautiful home we owned right on the lake in a private subdivision in Northern Illinois called The Chain of Lakes. I left because he and my eldest son, his step-son didn't get along but mostly because one day he cancelled the mortgage Insurance on the home and he was 22 years my senior. I was scared to death that if he died I wouldn't be able to manage. SO STUPID, SO SHORTSIGHTED of me. I could have managed just fine and the property now today is worth nearly $400,000 because of where its located. Talk about 'cut my nose off to spite my face.' So here I sit trying to save $5000. so I can kick this border out on his behind and have a buffer for when the paycheck is alittle light...Who knew, right Lynn329???