Jackie, yep, travel and deb, I am with you girls. I married my high school sweetheart and am still madly in love. He's a winner. I tell my kids all the time that they need to marry their best friend. I also tell them you can't be married and be selfish. I think that's what breaks up so many marriages.

Bluebird, I wish we could go for a long walk and talk. I'd love it. I always want to make things better for others so here's another thought. How about a Marriage Encounter. Do they have them where you live? I understand the communicating that takes place on those weekends is out of this world.

I want you to know that I don't take your comments as griping...just working through your thoughts of the moment...and with perimenopause, those thoughts can change in a moment. I just prayed that your hubby would bless you in some way this week.