He (we are not married, but very intertwined financially) and I have lots of problems...and he won't go to counseling. I had it out with him again last nite and just won't look at himself. He says I overreact and thought I was completely out of line asking him to change his dinner by a half hour with his daughter. Said we could go to a million therapists and no one would agree with me...sigh...at that point, I just stopped talking.