Good God girl what are you waiting for, the ME to be standing over your dead body saying, poor thing! You never mentioned violence in the other post at all or my answer would have been much stronger. Now is not the time to worry about what anyone else thinks of you. You are not a wimp, you are an abused, frightened and confused woman who needs to get herself together and get the hell out of there while you are still able to....No one deserves what you have been given and mark my words the worst is yet to come if you remain there....