Di, I believe you are receiving some excellent advice here. I agree with Chatty that this will all work out. In between the lines, I see that both you and your DSD are very decent and kind women.....with both of you making a heartfelt effort to make the best of the situation.

You will love being a grandma! Clayton is visiting me this weekend and I'm taking him to an aquarium. After he wears me out, I send him home....lol!

Daisygirl