Thanks!

I DID pray for a husband w/children since I could not have my own. And that prayer was answered. So you all are right. I need to be a "mother" and do what any "real" mother would.

I even send the birth mom a birthday card yearly and send a gift along for her with her daughter. I figure, if she is loved by my step-kids, then I need to show love as well. DH does not know this, but I must do what I feel the Lord leading me to do.

I'll let ya'll know how it goes next weekend. They'll only be there two full days. Too bad, but it WILL be full!Then we will not see them until after the baby is born which will be after mid Feb. (the DOWN side of divorce....I hate it!)