Thanks for your insight Kathryn.

Fortuantely, she is the only one in the family that is narcissistic. My in-laws where some of the finest people I have been blessed to have in my life. Even my step daughter's mom is closer to me than she is.

It also bugs me that her relationship, or lack there of, with my son who is 5 comes and goes on my daughter's terms. He does not understand that and he actually forgets that he has a sister most of the time. Then when she is coming his enthusiasm level goes sky high only to be shattered 15 minutes after she arrives. [Mad]

I am past the trying part and really do not like her at all. My only feelings are for my husband who is mostly hurt and disappointed and my son.

Lynn