Dianne,
I applaud you for setting down those rules. You go girl! I mean it. If they are disrespectful of you, let them earn the right to come back in your home. ON YOUR TERMS. I say again, YOU GO GIRL! I'm disappointed that your husband actually joined in with them to take jabs at you. What kind of message did that send?

I think you have a good head on your shoulders and no doubt they will think twice before they try that crap again with you. Stand your ground. I'm angry with them too!

JJ