Dianne, I don't think you're selfish at all! I wish and have done so many a situation, that I could have or could walk away. My son got this 'save the world' behaviour honestly. So many times I have extended a helping hand. More times than I'd like to mention, that very extended hand came back pretty burned.

But, I like to think of people as indivisuals and not judge them based on someone else's behavior.

Can you give me some of that 'step away from the situation' spirit? I make myself sick! [Embarrassed]