lamartine, welcome to BWS! I hope you'll stick around and share in other forums too.

The most hurtful situations involve two people who have different motives for dating. You're looking for long-term. He's looking for short. HOnestly, I hope he doesn't contact you because I'm afraid you'll see him again and I don't think you should. He does not have YOUR best interest at heart.

What makes you attracted to him? Just wondering.

People who are in love with you shouldn't say really cruel things to you, make you feel mistreated or deceived, or sleep and run.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but by reading your post...you seem to already have this figured out.

Come here and post when you feel lonely. We'll help you get through this.