Oh boy is seems I did not use my words wisely in the above post. I was not trying to take anything away or make less of Diannes wonderful site nor all the magnificient work she does. I was merely stating the fact that this site would "also" be a good place for older women being abused or just feeling confused to come and visit. I say that because there are so many many women here that actively post answers trying to help each other. I also visit Diannes site and enjoy the interactions with those women as well. There are just more of us here and thats the only reason I made the comment. Dianne if I offended you in anyway it was unintentional which I explained in my PM to you personally. No problem here ladies but I want to make sure Dianne gets my meaning just in case. She is a very good friend and I would be devistated if I offended her in anyway.