Dear Dotsie

You are in no way old-fashioned Dotsie. Believing in who you are and being able to sustain that, your feelings and your heart and your actions are the foundation for a good life and the food of the spirit and soul.

In today's times we are not taught to be strong within ourselves because that would have an effect on market share. Sounds strange though, doesn't it. Media, fashionable viewpoints all generate fear to get us to follow societal trends. Being original and strong within yourself doesn't play well and it doesn't sell products or sex.

For women to give up their strength and inner knowing of what's best for them to suit the trend of the moment just because its fashionable is just society's lie. It's refreshing when women allow themselves to become strong in who they are.

For my part I haven't dated in over a decade, a) due to illness and b) because I found that real love comes from such a deep place in the heart, this surface existence that society lives in the dating scene has become just a ghost to me.

A SECRET WE ALL NEED TO KNOW
There is a beautiful light that lives within all of us and the journey is to bring this forth, the stronger the light within grows (and this is a quantum effect) the higher the consciousness rises and this permeates all the cells and when that happens ladies...this magnetic energy within will draw to you men within that consciousness... where the heart and truth really live outside of what's fashionable.

I'm sure there are some absolutely fabulous men out there, where the heart touches their soul and just knows and feels integrity and beauty, but society today has taught men not to go deep into their heart and their beauty, rather to stay positioned on a surface reality that informs them how to act in the moment. When men start to realize that there is a greater journey than what they are told by society, a journey within, then indeed life would be very interesting, the men richer in character and beauty.

Society has caused a great deal of pain within the men and they don't even know it, their heart's repressed from childhood, having to live in a surface understanding of what a man should be. I have felt the beauty of a man, his heart the wildness of spirit and the depth of his soul, it brings tears to my eyes when I remember, the character, the strength, the integrity and the ineffible sadness of enduring a society's ways that is ultimately taking away the inner strength of a man...

True love, the heart and its merging with the other, the light, the beauty and the soul of peace have become my guideposts, although a sadness within my heart that took many years to heal, still lives when I remember the beauty and the tears of love.

A TIP:
Often we fall in love with the energy a man exudes, but there are many energies, the energy of his soul(what he has loved), the energy of his personality(how he acts and reacts in daily life)the magnetic energy, charisma, ie the light within him that he exudes that sometimes confuses us because we are so drawn to a specific energy within him. We think we're in love but really we're in love with the energy. To really know a man takes time if we can't recognize all of the energies within a man, some of them conflicting. For example, a man's heart and love of his soul and what he loves may be very beautiful, but how he was taught to think in regard to communicating within this world and what he was taught to expect fashion his personality which may be in total opposition to his heart and soul. Sounds strange, but that's what happens when a man moves away from his inner being and becomes attuned only to the surface living of societies' dictates. I'm not against society, it's just that society comes out with these trends called fashion that is geared to the market place. There is no division anymore, where the soul can live in peace without having to contend with the demands of fashion.

But have peace ladies, it's important to keep becoming the beauty of who you are on this ever present journey and enjoy you! Because that's something we can always count on! The best to all of you!

Leigha