Why would any man imagine that any woman in her right mind wants a man that doesn't work though he still could and is probably just looking for a meal ticket and soft lace to land. Boy I could write a book on that subject. Been there done that but to my defense, I didn't know ahead of time that "I DO" meant and won't ever again. Whirlwind if and when you get invloved make it with a man that can improve your life not invade your space...I may wait forever and thats fine with this Boomer gal.... [Eek!] [Razz]