I think things are the same as always from the mans point of view and I do date but am casual and NO man gets any farther than good conversation and a nice meal and hopefully a lot of laughs. I believeyou are treated exactly the way you allow yourself to be treated by a man on a date. If a woman is hard up in her own mind and acts that way, of course a man will take advantage if he can. But he will not admire you, respect you or love you, how could he? Be a lady at all times no matter what the world around you is doing. I would rather be alone than on loan! I feel sorry for those who disrespect themselves so much that they turn into something cheap....Its a lose, lose situation.... [Roll Eyes]