This is a great discussion and I cannot believe I overlooked it. What I want to say is that I found out I liked me. I made the conscious decision to not date, and to spend more time getting to know the "grown up" and "divorced" me. I like what I discovered and am perfectly content to spend time alone. I also like my friend's company, and I like to date as well. But all in all, the decision to do whatever resides with me. It will be my idea, and because it is something that I want to do, not forced into and not because I can't entertain myself. I really believe you have the right idea, actually all of you do. I applaud your healthy way of thinking!

JJ