I wasn't going to answer your post because it was so incredibly rude but I would like to set the record straight. Firstly, you did not read my post correctly at all. I was not even dating the man. I fell for him and he made it perfectly clear all along that he wanted to be friends. I don't have any kind of pathological need to find the "perfect" man and I certainly am not "desperate" in any sense of the word.

Don't you have anything better to do with your time than to insult women on message boards? Sigh. Especially women who are opening up and confiding about painful situations? Shame on you, Sparticuss.

Sigrid