ariadne, welcome and congratulations for pouring your heart out, seeking advice and assessing your situation. You have chosen the right way to handle it. The most difficult time may come when he wants his guitar back and you think "I will see him just one more time." Leave it on the porch girl, right next to your "garbage can."
A beautiful life / relationship awaits you, one that is stress free, loving and genuine. And who deserves that more than you?


chickadee