Been there, done that, have the T-shirt. You are better off to dump the guy and close yourmind against him. He is destrucive and detrimental to your mental health. I KNOW, I have been there, it is like an addiction that can't be satisfied.

THere will be someone for you. I found themost wonderful man on earth and we have been married now for 11 years. I had decided after being in an emotionally abusive marriage for 24 years, and then that stupid interlude with the other guy, my husband Steve as a God send and truly saved my sanity.

Sherri