Sugaree,

You've made some fine points on 'familiarily.' Indeed, most of us do what we feel familiar with or can identify with.

My father wasn't perfect; in fact, there were times when I was afraid of him but deep inside, I know that he loved me. Through the years, my father has not aged well and has become bitter. Life, for him, did not turn out the way he wanted it to. I think he tried too hard and expected 'perfection' in himself and in his family. This used to bother me but now I understand that this is his way of coping with life.

Didn't mean to go on. It is my hope and prayer that you find that someone who is 'worthy' of you but if not, you can build your life on your own dreams, aspirations and goals. From your writing I can tell that you will do well!

Let us know how it goes for you, if you want...