Thanks ladies. A beautiful, polished cedar memory box came in the mail for David. It contains a book for pictures, family tree, etc. from the company. I mean...it's beautiful! So, I placed it on the counter and surrounded it with all the cards so it was the first thing David saw when he came home. He was very touched.

I've decided that my FIL knew I loved him (I also busted his chops when he needed it too) and that's all that matters.

This has been a valuable lesson for me. I will always remember the spouse of the one who lost a parent in my cards. Their name will be included and I'm sorry for those who felt the same sting of pain that I did.