Just went to collect the mail and there are a ton of sympathy cards (my FIL died this past week) and most of the cards are addressed to only my husband. A few were to Mr.& Mrs or Mr & Family.

I mean, I lost my FIL, he was a part of my family too! I feel a loss just like my husband and if the truth be known, it was me who remembered his birthday and Fathers Day, not my husband.

I found tears welling up in my eyes as I read the contents of the cards and the caring but it hurt me.