Well, just to catch ya'll up, DH has not succumbed to the irristible draw of the island keys and gone bonkers on me. He wants to go through a financial analysis before even considering looking for another job. "yay".. and this isn't an overnight decision he wants to make. We are going to let it "Stew" for awhile and think about it calmly.

This is a dream he has, but not one that we must drop everything and fulfill immediately. "Whew!"

Clearer thinking has prevailed.