You ladies give me a lot to think about. Dotsie, you're right. I must let him know how I feel, and not keep it all bottled up inside. Otherwise, he won't understand my reactions.

Chatty, one of the good things about the keys is that we go to visit it every couple of months or so, so I can keep doing scouting work while we're there and talk to others who live there.

Dianne, it does cause me more stress worrying about it, but that's an issue I have to deal with. As for waiting for my hubby to retire, that's a thought. However, he may say that he doesn't want to wait, he'll be too old then. [Smile]

I appreciate all your comments and am grateful for your "second set of eyes" to my dilemma.

[ May 19, 2005, 02:16 PM: Message edited by: Vicki M. Taylor ]