Ladies, I need help.

I do not like it when I get angry at DH when I find crumbs, things not put back in the fridge, wrappers not thrown away, dishes not put in the sink, socks rolled up in a ball...you get the drift.

A friend told me a long time ago, that when I get mad, remind myself that I am "cleaning up for Jesus", serving Him.

Why am I having problems with this? I don't LIKE feeling angry or resentful when he is not a cleaner-upper like I am. I KNOW it's one of my jobs to take care of my husband, but I need an attitude adjustment. He is not a housewife and does not notice the details that I do.

How do YOU handle this??