Sending cards to your grandson and keeping in touch the best you can is about all you can do sometimes. Hopefully your D-I-L will grow up one day and realize what she's been missing - the opportunity to have had 2 mom's [Smile]

My son is probably going to be moving far far away from me shortly -- and logically I know that they have to live their own life and the opportunity for them is better where they're going then here -- motherly I'm going to miss them soooooo much -- so in a few months I may be crying on your shoulder for support [Smile] I think the worst part will not being "grandma" on a daily basis anymore [Frown]

I guess now we can all understand how our parents felt when we left home [Smile]