JawJaw, we all have problems, but we are also all blessed, aren't we? I think that sometimes we experience more of one than the other, that's all. Have you ever read James Dobson's book, 'When God Doesn't Make Sense'? I think it really explains the reality of life and the problems we are all destined to endure. Thank you so much for your kind words and especially for sending love through prayer - there is no better way to show love for another!