Runner,

You already know that you are not alone...that God is with you always. Even in your pain.

To want to share your life with a significant other is very natural and will come. Just not eaily for you and quickly. When you least expect it, someone will show up that gets that heart thumping. You are an intelligent woman and you can rationalize all of this but you want to be in love. You know that is not a fault!!

Stay with God, ask him for strength and you will begin to allow love into your life.

And welcome to the forums. Tell us about Singapore and your life. Did you move there for post grad work?

Lynn