My 17-year-old daughter was seeing a 36-year old man behind our backs. We found out and told her we could not support nor condone this behavior in our home. She chose to move out. She stayed with him for a few weeks then he got her a studio apt near school (she's a senior). She now turned 18. When she left, she wrote me (mom) a long hate letter how I've never been there for her because i was taking care of others. She would rather starve on the streets then spend one more day in our home. She would rather be dead than be anything like me. This after I've lost both parents and one in-law parent. I can hardly bare this. How does one get through this pain? I adopted my sister's 3 girls - two were cocaine addicted (she is one). She is a straight A student. I don't know where "to be" with this. He is supporting her. He is a deadbeat dad. I'm sorry for droning on and on. Thanks for listening