I'm sure your heart is aching. I'm praying for you and your daughter. I have 20 and 16 year old sons, and a 17 year old daughter. My heart goes out to you.

I think the most important thing you can do for her is to let her know you love her, but don't approve of her decisions. But be certain she knows you love her.

How are you managing? Please remember to take care of yourself, talk with friends, pray, meet with a counselor, exercise, sleep, etc. It's important that you keep your sanity.