It IS hard to know when to draw the line. If you throw them out, they stand the chance of being on the streets and all that goes with it. If you let them live with you and buy their cars, they take advantage of you! Geesh! I leased my daughter's car but she always makes the payment on time, by herself without me writing a check for her. But, it took a while for us to get to this point. It was hard for me to cut her off, very hard but now, she says it's the best thing that ever happened to her. Hated me for a while but now understands. Do we ever get them raised?