I am so grateful that you have been able to see the beauty that has evolved as a result of such a tragedy. What a blessing to be able to reflect, and share those reflections with your children and the people on this board. I can't help but think that the love you have shown your children through the years is a reflection of what you are seeing in them right now. You reap what you sow and you have sown many loving seeds! Because of your spirit and how you find the good in spite of the bad...I feel like I have no room for pity parties in my life! Thanks for being such an inspiration!