I don't think it's old fashioned either. It's the way God intended it to be. Unfortunately, other people can cause mothers to have to work. And kids understand that. I've been home with my kids all their lives so far, and they're not all turning out so great. Chatty, from the things you've written, yours sound very loving and considerate. I especially like the story of your son getting the snow for his little guy. That's so precious! He's got a heart like his mom!!!