I don't find my reclusivness TOO MUCH at all. I enjoy it, and I don't think it's unhealthy. It's my choice. Who is to say it is unhealthy for me? I see my friends when I want to, I see my children and grandchildren when I want to, and I come and go as I please. Why should I let society or anyone else's idea of "too much" dictate what I do? I totally disagree. It's a matter of choice and I've earned that choice.

JJ