Thanks, countrygirl, for your message. I have learned how to say "no" but I am still harboring a fair amount of guilt about doing so. I am gradually learning my limits and am working toward feeling okay about that. As far as enjoying my children...I enjoy them everyday! One thing I am aware of is how quickly it goes; I treasure my time with them. It's really a tightrope walk, this thing called life..balance is everything. Nice to know we are all in it together!