I guess I am trying to get feedback on the feeling of being overwhelmed and wanting to pull out of everything! I am 37 years old and a stay-at-home mother of three and find myself feeling that I just can't do one more thing! We all say that learning how to say "no" is crucial, but it really takes some resolve to do so when the responses you get from other women see that "saying no" as a weakness. I think I see women saying one thing but relaying another through body language and tone of voice. If we only knew how much we effect each other! We need to be good to ourselves and hold ourselves up when the pressure starts to creep in from all sides to do more and be more. Pretty soon we're walking around resenting the very people we say we're trying to help. I am trying to find the balance, but for right now I'm saying "enough!" I crave things to be simpler.