I read somewhere that you are who you run with. If this person always has a crisis, then her attitude about life has got to be some sort of influence on you and your daughter as well. You think????? I would say follow Kathryn's advice and surround yourself with people of like mind and spirit. With people who's cups are half full...With friends who find the joy and blessings in every day living.

I don't mean to sound unkind, but your friend sounds like a user to me. She only wants you around when she needs a sounding board.

JJ