Kathryn, well thats a good start but remember it won't work if you are not "consistant." As far as doing things they've done over, I think not...Make them do it over and over again until they get it right. Its hard to believe now but one day they will thank you for it...Mine do all the time and so do their wives....Recently when I was quite ilol, it was my son at the hospital making sure I was tended to properly and then he brought me home, shopped for me and made me several dishes I only had to heat up. He's come over since and cleaned the entire place plus helps at home. She works later than he does and she always finds dinner ready and the laundry done. To look at this strapping 6ft something man, you'd never expect it. I am so proud of David and so glad I was a nag back then...