I have no personal experience with incest, thank God. But I do have a friend who was a victim and I was talking to her on the phone one day when it "surfaced" from her memory, causing her to tremble and cry uncontrollably. It frightened me that she would do something desperate. I urged and pleaded with her to see a professional, but she was married to a controlling jerk who not only kept her under his ugly thumb, but had committed the same crime himself earlier in their marriage. I stuck by her through her divorce and we have become best friends. We live in different states, so it is difficult for us to get together, but I am hoping to have her as a houseguest, along with her new husband sometime this summer.
I admire anyone who can find their way through such devastating experiences and not go completely bonkers. It must take great fortitude.
God bless you all.