Itza I believe that some people cazn not or won't deal with unpleasant things. I brought my sister with MS to live in my home till the end of her days and at least 4 of my best friends, people that I saw almost daily stopped coming around. I needed them most then as she was like a simple minded child and at times unpleasant to see BUT that is no excuse. After 5 years she died and only then did these people begin to try to drift back into my circle of friends. One woman inally said I had no reason to be mad because she couldn't stand be around retarded people. At least she was honest. None of these people are still my friends, I guess I can't stand retarded acting people either...Maybe we are better off....