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Originally posted by TVC15:
I agree with smile
Lonely people do desparate things and unfortunately usually end up even lonelier afterwards. I've had experience with this myself and its just not worth keeping someone around like that. They will bring you down if you let them.

I know you read what smile had written but I'm not sure that you read what I had written afterwards so my reply to your post (above) is basically: If your friend is going through a tough time, you think it's ok for you to ignore them? And when they become aware of your absense (because tragedy is an incredibly lonely time for people) and they then say words to the effect of, "I'm missing you and could do with some friendly support," you're saying it's then ok for you to think, "Woah, this is way to heavy for me so I'll ignore them even more now."

Please tell me that's not what you are saying.

Itza

[ August 15, 2005, 01:45 PM: Message edited by: Itza ]